i spoke about foreigners and relative attitudes between them and myself. but, truth be told, one of the reasons they think they are in deepest darkest africa when they are here is because they are!!!
we pick up the story roughly where i left it off. the initial accident claimed two lives. then the young son has to survive a brain bleed and a neck fracture. somehow the neourosurgeon sorts all that out. then in icu he gets acalculous cholecystitis and i meet him, almost in exitus. we fetch him from the pearly gates and tie him up in icu for a while. he survives. he can walk. his maths and science still works. miraculous!
but for a moment imagine the father, the only one not really injured in the accident. he is in a foreign country. he has just lost 50% of his family and there is a real chance his son might die or be paralysed or retarded for life. the daily icu vigil alone must have taken a toll on him. and then things slowly start improving.
after too long away from home they are ready to leave. the son is amazingly well. he is neither paralysed nor retarded. also he is alive which everyone sees as a positive thing. then they have the unpleasant task of getting the bodies of the other two members of the family. what do they find? certain body parts are missing, including one hand!!! stolen from the dead in the morgue. you just can't make this sort of thing up. i dare you to try.
i have spoken before about body parts stolen to be used by sangomas for so called traditional medicine, so i suppose i shouldn't be shocked, but i was. i couldn't help feeling for him. over and above all the terrible things that happened to this man and his family he has to endure the bodies of his departed family being desecrated.
this story so affected me i followed it in the local papers for a while and pretty much put it together. at least some of the people were actually arrested so quite a lot of the story became public. it seems there were people working in the morgue who regularly stole body parts to sell to sangomas. they would target the bodies which were to be cremated and cut out the desired organs just before cremation. no one would be the wiser. the foreigners were targeted, it seems, because the body lay in the morgue so long while the boy recovered in hospital.
so, in conclusion, this is deepest darkest africa and here you will truly be amongst us savages.